Minor spoilor: beardy baldy does not have a daughter he's lying.
Personally I'd advise you to get bald haircut, with big beard, as Rose said it tells you on each card what they do for you, study each one and decide on the one you want.
Clothes, any bright clothes, from bright will users, to bright leather, this is really all you can do for your hero's appearance early on, later you'll get tattoes which help alot.
But get some attractive/non-scary haircuts and clothes, give people money, gifts, etc and the public will think more highly of you.
Keep flirting with a woman, give her gifts, use hero pose, flirt, manly arm pump, giggle emotions and dress brightly and I guarentee you'll have a npc asking you for a wedding ring.
When a npc's aura turns green, this means you can marry them, now go and buy a wedding ring, and then talk to them again, make sure you have marital house that is not up for rent, and you'll be married in no time. ![Smily [:)]](/emoticons/emotion-1.gif)
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