When I get highly frustrated with a project I stop working on it for a while. And this game has managed to frustrate me to no end.
But that doesn't matter currently, we have just successfully played the first game across the net using the latest client version. Although it still uses bnwlibrary.dll from bw phoenix it should be worlds easier to use than it, although the hosts will need to forward the same ports that bw phoenix uses.
So here it is, a centralized, easy to use matchup program with many features yet to come - let a new era of black & white multiplayer begin.